<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Pindao — Blog</title><description>Ideas, guides and good habits for gift exchanges.</description><link>https://www.pindao.app/</link><language>en</language><item><title>Setting a budget everyone is comfortable with</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/a-budget-everyone-is-comfortable-with/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/a-budget-everyone-is-comfortable-with/</guid><description>The budget is the one decision that can quietly exclude somebody. How to pick the number, how to say it, and why a range beats a ceiling.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>organising</category><category>budget</category></item><item><title>The family got too big to buy for everyone. Now what?</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-too-big-to-buy-for/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-too-big-to-buy-for/</guid><description>Somewhere between twelve and twenty relatives, buying for everybody stops being possible. The four ways families handle it, and what each one actually costs.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>thanksgiving</category><category>family</category></item><item><title>Somebody forgot their gift: what to do on the day</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/forgotten-secret-santa-gift/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/forgotten-secret-santa-gift/</guid><description>It happens in almost every group. Three ways to handle a missing gift without humiliating anyone, and what to change so it does not happen again.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>Friendsgiving: the meal, the draw, and who brings what</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/friendsgiving-gift-exchange/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/friendsgiving-gift-exchange/</guid><description>A dinner for twelve friends works or fails on two lists made a week early. How to split the cooking, and why a gift draw suits this evening better than Christmas.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>thanksgiving</category><category>friends</category></item><item><title>Draw names at Thanksgiving, exchange gifts at Christmas</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/thanksgiving-draw-for-christmas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/thanksgiving-draw-for-christmas/</guid><description>The whole family is in one room in late November and scattered by mid-December. Here is the calendar that uses that, and the four minutes at dessert it takes.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>thanksgiving</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>White Elephant or Secret Santa: which one your group actually wants</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/white-elephant-vs-secret-santa/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/white-elephant-vs-secret-santa/</guid><description>They are not two names for the same game. One is a gift chosen for a person, the other is a gift stolen from one. Here is which suits which group, and the rules for both.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>rules</category></item><item><title>The worst Secret Santa gifts, ranked by how fast the room goes quiet</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-secret-santa-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-secret-santa-gift-ideas/</guid><description>A complete guide to destroying a gift exchange with a single parcel. Twelve ideas that have never once worked, presented with all the seriousness they deserve, which is none.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>The worst gifts ever handed over at a Thanksgiving table</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-thanksgiving-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-thanksgiving-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Eleven presents given in late November, in front of the whole family, and regretted before the plates were cleared. An annotated field guide.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>thanksgiving</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>The worst gifts to give your own family, a complete field guide</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-family-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-family-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Eleven ideas that have caused more silence around a dinner table than any political discussion. Presented as a warning, absolutely not as a shopping list.</description><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>family</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>What to write when you invite a group to a Secret Santa</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-invitation-message/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-invitation-message/</guid><description>The invitation decides how many people take part and how many questions you answer afterwards. Four things it must contain, three templates, and the sentence that kills participation.</description><pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>The worst office Secret Santa gifts, an incomplete but painful list</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-office-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-office-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Twelve gifts that have been opened in front of a team and should not have been. A guide to what not to do, written with the deepest respect for everyone who has already done it.</description><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>The worst gifts to bring to a class exchange, according to every teacher alive</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-classroom-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-classroom-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Eleven presents that have been unwrapped in a classroom and made a professional adult close their eyes. A guide for parents, written from behind the desk.</description><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>school</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>A gift draw as a New Year&apos;s Eve game: how to run it at the party</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/new-years-eve-draw-game/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/new-years-eve-draw-game/</guid><description>A draw is the rare party game that works with fourteen people, alcohol and no explanation. The timing that matters, four formats, and what to do about plus-ones.</description><pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>new-year</category><category>party</category></item><item><title>The worst New Year gifts, or: eleven ways to say &quot;you should change&quot;</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-new-year-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-new-year-gift-ideas/</guid><description>January is the only month where an entire industry exists to help you tell somebody they are not good enough, gift-wrapped. A field guide to the genre, and how to escape it.</description><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>new-year</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>The worst birthday gifts, ranked by the length of the pause before &quot;thank you&quot;</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-birthday-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-birthday-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Twelve presents that have been handed over on a birthday and immediately regretted. A taxonomy of failure, offered in a spirit of public safety.</description><pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>birthdays</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>The worst gifts to bring to a reunion, a survival guide</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-reunion-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-reunion-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Ten presents that have turned a warm evening cold in under four seconds. Mostly nostalgia, weaponised. Read before booking the restaurant.</description><pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>reunion</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>Organising a reunion when nobody lives in the same place any more</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/organising-a-reunion-across-cities/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/organising-a-reunion-across-cities/</guid><description>Reunions fail at the date, not at the venue. The order to decide things in, the number of people who will actually come, and the one job to hand to somebody else.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>reunion</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>Gift exchanges in a hybrid team, without the office-only crowd winning</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/hybrid-team-gift-exchange/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/hybrid-team-gift-exchange/</guid><description>The people in the room get the good version and the people at home get a parcel. Here is how to run one exchange rather than two.</description><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>remote</category></item><item><title>The worst books to give someone, an annotated bibliography of regret</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-books-to-give-someone/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-books-to-give-someone/</guid><description>Eleven books that have been handed over in a book swap and immediately shelved forever. A guide to the genre, written with love for everyone who has done it.</description><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>book-swap</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>School gift exchange: ideas that work under ten euros</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/school-gift-ideas-under-ten/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/school-gift-ideas-under-ten/</guid><description>A class exchange lives or dies on the ceiling being low and the ideas being good. Thirty that work, sorted by age, and the five that always disappoint.</description><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>school</category><category>gift-ideas</category></item><item><title>Gifts too bad even for a worst-gift contest</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/too-bad-even-for-a-worst-gift-contest/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/too-bad-even-for-a-worst-gift-contest/</guid><description>A contest where the goal is to be terrible still has a floor, and these eleven ideas go straight through it. The disqualification list, compiled from genuine incidents.</description><pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>worst-gift</category><category>humour</category></item><item><title>A milestone birthday, and you drew the name: what to give</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/milestone-birthday-gift-ideas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/milestone-birthday-gift-ideas/</guid><description>Thirty, forty, fifty. A round number raises the stakes and most people respond by spending more, which is the wrong lever. Four categories that work, and the joke to skip.</description><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>birthdays</category><category>gift-ideas</category></item><item><title>Choosing a book for someone whose taste you don&apos;t know</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/choosing-a-book-for-someone-else/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/choosing-a-book-for-someone-else/</guid><description>Giving a book to a stranger looks impossible and is mostly a matter of picking the right category. Four that almost always land, four that almost never do, and one question to ask.</description><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>book-swap</category><category>gift-ideas</category></item><item><title>You drew a colleague you barely know. Now what?</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-for-a-colleague-you-barely-know/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-for-a-colleague-you-barely-know/</guid><description>Three things you already know about them without realising, four categories that work for almost anyone, and the one-line note that does more than the gift itself.</description><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>gift-ideas</category></item><item><title>The gifts that actually win a worst-gift contest</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-gift-ideas-that-win/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-gift-ideas-that-win/</guid><description>The winner is never the ugliest thing in the room. Six categories that reliably take the prize, why the merely broken always loses, and the one that gets disqualified.</description><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>worst-gift</category><category>ideas</category></item><item><title>Drawing names with children in the family: how to keep it fair</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-gift-draw-with-children/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-gift-draw-with-children/</guid><description>Children can take part in a family draw from about seven, on three conditions. What changes for the budget, what to do when a child draws an adult, and how the secret survives a six-year-old.</description><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>family</category><category>children</category></item><item><title>Wishlists: giving ideas without spoiling the surprise</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/wishlist-without-spoiling-the-surprise/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/wishlist-without-spoiling-the-surprise/</guid><description>A wishlist that names a product turns a gift into a transaction. One that names a direction makes every gift better. The difference is how you ask.</description><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>organising</category><category>wishlist</category></item><item><title>How to draw names online for a Secret Santa, step by step</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/how-to-draw-names-online/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/how-to-draw-names-online/</guid><description>Drawing names online takes about five minutes and removes the two failures a paper hat cannot avoid: the person who draws themselves, and the organiser who now knows everything.</description><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>draw</category></item><item><title>A gift draw at a reunion: giving old friends something to open</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/reunion-gift-draw/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/reunion-gift-draw/</guid><description>Reunions are heavy on talking and light on structure, which is why they stall around ten. A small draw fixes the shape of the evening — here is how to run one that fits.</description><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>reunion</category><category>friends</category></item><item><title>A Secret Santa in the classroom: the checklist before you announce it</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/classroom-secret-santa-checklist/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/classroom-secret-santa-checklist/</guid><description>Twelve things to settle before the class hears about it — the budget, the families who do not celebrate, the two spare gifts, and the rule that saves the last ten minutes of term.</description><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>school</category><category>checklist</category></item><item><title>A birthday gift draw for a group of friends</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/birthday-gift-draw-for-friends/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/birthday-gift-draw-for-friends/</guid><description>Ten friends means ninety gifts a year, or none at all. One draw in January turns that into ten — each person with one birthday to remember and one gift to get right.</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>birthdays</category><category>friends</category></item><item><title>How to run a book swap: Secret Santa, but with books</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/how-to-run-a-book-swap/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/how-to-run-a-book-swap/</guid><description>A book swap is the cheapest gift exchange there is and the one people remember longest. The four rules that make it work, and the one that decides whether it is any good.</description><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>book-swap</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>Secret Santa at work: the rules that keep it out of HR</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-at-work-rules/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-at-work-rules/</guid><description>An office gift exchange goes wrong in a small number of predictable ways. Seven rules that cover all of them, and the two decisions that matter more than the budget.</description><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>rules</category></item><item><title>The rules of a worst-gift contest, and the one that keeps it kind</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-gift-contest-rules/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/worst-gift-contest-rules/</guid><description>Schrottwichteln is the funniest gift exchange there is, right up to the moment a joke lands on a person instead of an object. Seven rules, and how to judge the winner.</description><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>worst-gift</category><category>rules</category></item><item><title>A family gift exchange that works across three generations</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-gift-exchange-across-generations/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/family-gift-exchange-across-generations/</guid><description>Grandparents, parents and children do not want the same thing from a draw. Here is how to run one exchange that suits all three without turning into a compromise nobody enjoys.</description><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>family</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>A New Year gift draw: why January beats December</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/new-year-gift-draw-january/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/new-year-gift-draw-january/</guid><description>The same exchange, moved three weeks later, gets better gifts for less money and more attention. Here is what changes when you draw names for January instead of Christmas.</description><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>new-year</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>Fifty Secret Santa gifts under twenty, sorted by who you drew</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-gift-ideas-under-20/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-gift-ideas-under-20/</guid><description>Not a list of gadgets. Fifty ideas grouped by the kind of person you are buying for, plus the five that always disappoint.</description><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>gift-ideas</category></item><item><title>Office birthdays: the system that stops people being forgotten</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/office-birthdays-system/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/office-birthdays-system/</guid><description>Every office has the same failure: the first birthdays of the year get cake and the ones in August get nothing. A draw fixes it in one setup.</description><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>birthdays</category></item><item><title>Twelve ways to play Secret Santa differently</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-game-variations/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-game-variations/</guid><description>The classic draw works. These twelve variations change the brief without touching the mechanism — for groups that have done the same thing five years running.</description><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>ideas</category></item><item><title>A leaving gift without the email chain</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/farewell-gift-without-the-email-chain/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/farewell-gift-without-the-email-chain/</guid><description>Collections for a departing colleague are the worst-organised thing in most offices. Here is why, and what to do instead — including when a draw is the wrong tool.</description><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>work</category><category>organising</category></item><item><title>Couples, flatmates, pairs: getting exclusions right</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/handling-exclusions-couples-flatmates/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/handling-exclusions-couples-flatmates/</guid><description>Exclusions are the one setting that decides whether a draw is enjoyable or awkward. Which pairs to mark, which to leave alone, and when too many make the draw impossible.</description><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>organising</category><category>draw</category></item><item><title>Where Secret Santa comes from, and what it is called elsewhere</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-origins-and-variations/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/secret-santa-origins-and-variations/</guid><description>The custom is younger than it looks, and every country has its own name and its own rules. A short history of Secret Santa, Wichteln, amigo invisible and the rest.</description><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>secret-santa</category><category>traditions</category></item><item><title>The golden rules of a gift exchange that actually works</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/golden-rules-of-a-gift-exchange/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/golden-rules-of-a-gift-exchange/</guid><description>Seven rules, all of them decided before the draw. Every group that has had a bad exchange broke one of them, and usually the same one.</description><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>organising</category><category>rules</category></item><item><title>Bringing a team together with a gift exchange, on no budget</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/team-building-gift-exchange-no-budget/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/team-building-gift-exchange-no-budget/</guid><description>Ten euros a head and one afternoon beats most team-building days, for a reason that has nothing to do with the gifts.</description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>team</category><category>work</category></item><item><title>Organising a gift exchange between friends, step by step</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-exchange-between-friends-step-by-step/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-exchange-between-friends-step-by-step/</guid><description>The whole thing takes an evening of decisions and three minutes of setup. Here is the order that stops the group chat from eating the idea alive.</description><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>organising</category><category>friends</category></item><item><title>Eight occasions for a gift draw that have nothing to do with Christmas</title><link>https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-draws-beyond-christmas/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.pindao.app/en/blog/gift-draws-beyond-christmas/</guid><description>Drawing names solves a problem that is not seasonal: a group wants to exchange gifts without anyone spending eight times over. Here is where else it works.</description><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>occasions</category><category>organising</category></item></channel></rss>